5 Ways to Personalize Your Wedding Music ✨

Lavandula Strings
Aug 26
3 min read

A beautiful outdoor wedding ceremony unfolds under a vibrant floral arch, where the bride and groom exchange vows surrounded by family and friends in elegant attire amidst a serene forest backdrop.

Your wedding day is one of the most meaningful celebrations of your life—and your music should reflect that. From the moment guests arrive to your final send-off, live music creates an atmosphere that feels both timeless and personal. At Lavandula Strings, we love helping couples craft soundtracks that are as unique as their love stories.

✨ Here are five inspired ways to personalize your wedding music:

1. Choose Songs That Tell Your Love Story

Up close action shot of a string quartet performing Bridgerton-style pop music at a luxurious wedding.

Think about the milestones of your relationship—your first date, a favorite concert, or a song you always sing together. Incorporating these into your ceremony or reception makes your soundtrack feel deeply personal and instantly recognizable to your guests.

(Browse our playlists and song library here)

2. Add a Surprise Musical Moment

A joyful moment as the bride walks down the aisle accompanied by a loved one, surrounded by smiling guests capturing the special occasion at an outdoor wedding.

Consider surprising your partner or guests with a meaningful song woven into the program.Whether it’s a parent’s favorite ballad or a pop hit that will make everyone smile, these unexpected touches become unforgettable memories.

Lavandula Tip: Think back to your childhood road trips—was there a Beatles song your parents always played that made you sing at the top of your lungs? That could be the perfect song for your family processional!

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3. Commission a Custom Arrangement

Elegant string musicians gracefully performing at a luxurious outdoor wedding.

Love a song that’s not traditionally played by strings? Consider a custom arrangement, created just for you.

From indie ballads to R&B classics, hearing your favorite track performed live by a string ensemble adds sophistication while keeping the moment authentically you.

4. Mix Genres for Contrast and Fun

A joyful couple shares a tender moment on their wedding day, holding hands and smiling brightly, with the bride showcasing a beautiful bouquet.

Blend the beauty of classical with the energy of modern hits. Imagine walking down the aisle to Handel’s Arrival of the Queen of Sheba and then recessing to Beyoncé’s Love on Top. These juxtapositions keep your guests engaged and showcase your personality as a couple and serves as a great transition into a more upbeat cocktail hour.

Processional & Recessional Pairings

Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring –Marry You

Trumpet Voluntary – I’m Yours

Air on the G String – Best Day of My Life

Wedding March – Don’t Stop Me Now

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5. Create a Signature Soundtrack Arc

Treat your wedding like a story with its own musical chapters: serene pieces as guests arrive, a romantic melody for your processional, an upbeat anthem for the recessional, and lively pop selections for cocktail hour. This intentional flow ensures that every moment feels connected while keeping the energy building.

(See our wedding gallery for inspiration from past events)

✨ At Lavandula Strings, we believe music should be more than background—it should be the heartbeat of your celebration. With custom arrangements, thoughtful curation, and a personal touch, we’ll help create a soundtrack that’s truly yours. ✨